I try to understand people humiliating the others ... and no matter how much i would try ... i find myself incapable of finding a logical answer.

And more i analyse ... more i realise that those people doing such stupid things ... are doing that with the close souls from the stage of their lives.

I see that at a mother ... acting stupid with her daughter.

I see that at 2 close friends from school.

I also see that even ... in love stories.

And ... somehow is ... ridiculous.

In fact ... a total nonsense.

But i continue my analysis .... being intrigued by all is going on.

Into one point ... i trend to believe that all is related to expressing an unconscious reply to another abstract humiliation came from the partner.

Unfortunately we see just the clear details of life ... and can't understand the abstract ...

So ... we accuse only the one which we humiliate in ... continuous form.

 

But why?!

I mean ... why we can't see it's an unconscious psychological game?!

And ... why we can't talk about it ... and what it generated it?!

Why we can't make peace?!

Today ... i see the fact that there are many moments of offending each other ... and i can expect that as ... normality ... and real case scenario.

Unfortunately ... i can't accept humiliation.

It's sort of a cancer of the relationship.

Especially ... at the ones doing it in continuous form.

Until it's absolutely obvious that this sort of cancer ... it's actually a terminal cancer.

One person humiliating ... can't stop doing it ... and the other part simple can't endure it anymore.

So ... the love story is ruined.psychological games

Day by day ... till one day when it's not possible anymore to continue...

And i laugh ... analysing such cases.

All was related to psychological aspects which could not be digested properly ... analysed ... defined ... so ... that into the end redefine all the aspects and .... continue to enjoy the beautiful love story.

I can only conclude that the Ego ... that illusory self ... don't allow us ... to experience properly life.

... not even when the soul is whispering that all it's amazing and the only thing we must do together ... is to ... live the experience into a beautiful way.

 

That inner balance between the self ... and the illusory self ... simple ruins all.

And of course ... we continue pretending we don't really understand what is going on.

 

 

 

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